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Habits & Motivation

Why I Keep Getting in My Own Way

Understanding Self-Sabotage, and the Self-Alliance Method for Making Peace With Yourself and Coming to Be on Your Own Side

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Why this book exists

A focused place to understand what is happening

Why I Keep Getting in My Own Way is a compassionate, research-informed self-development book for readers navigating personal growth & motivation. It helps you understand the pattern beneath the struggle, meet it with less shame, and use clear reflection and practical exercises to move towards making peace with yourself and coming to be on your own side.

The writing is designed to reduce shame, bring the underlying pattern into view and give you practical ways to respond without pretending that every life follows the same formula.

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